Grace and Space

Moving on to the final post inspired by Nancy Pearcey’s new book Love Thy Body. Order your copy here. Pearcey insightfully writes about sexual identity issues, stating that “our bodies are created by God and are intended to give us clues about our sexual identity.” I would add that the same can be applied to gender … Continue reading Grace and Space

Holy ________!

If you filled in the blank with a four-letter word, it expresses the sentiment I felt the first time I heard of people choosing celibacy over same-sex relationships.  Former gay-identified Dr. Christopher Yuan calls this a holy sexuality:  pursuing a relationship with Christ through surrendering our desires and attractions to Him daily and living in sexual … Continue reading Holy ________!

Change the Question

As a post–gay Christian, I was interested in how Nancy Pearcey would navigate the muddy waters of faith, sexuality, and gender in her new book “Love Thy Body.”  Pearcey laid the groundwork based on “the choice of affirming or rejecting the goodness of God’s intended design for our bodies and sexuality.”  Almost every page of … Continue reading Change the Question

I am Writing my Story

  Hi Friends, For the last eight years I have been on a journey to resolve my faith and sexuality. Since coming to a resolution, I have had many opportunities to share my story in front of hundreds of people.  The issues surrounding, sexuality, marriage, and gender are hot button topics.  They impact individuals, families … Continue reading I am Writing my Story

Faith & Sexuality: I Hate the Conflict!

To be transparent, I hate the conflict that happens around the topics surrounding faith and sexuality. The recent announcements of well-loved Christian authors/speakers Jen and Brandon Hatmaker, and well-known blogger and speaker Glennon Doyle Melton announcing she is in a same-sex relationship, have left me grieved and frustrated. The issues surrounding faith and sexuality are deeply personal to me and … Continue reading Faith & Sexuality: I Hate the Conflict!